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Safety

Every great date starts with feeling secure. Keep these ideas in mind before meeting anyone new.

Keep It Secure, Keep It Here

Messages sent on our platform benefit from scam detection. Once off-site, you’re unprotected.

Video Introductions, Verified Identities

Deepfakes exist — confirm names, photos, and profiles beyond the call.

Don’t Be a Target

Blackmailers often ask for intimate photos, then threaten to send them to your friends and family.

Meet Where There’s a Crowd

Pick locations where you feel safe and visible, like a museum or busy street café.

Tell a Friend Before You Go

Let someone know who you’re meeting, where you’ll be, and when you plan to return.

Stay Connected With a Charged Phone

It’s your best safety tool — keep it powered and close at hand.

Arrive Alone

It’s best to travel on your own rather than sharing a car with someone you just met.

Look After Yourself

Keep drinks light so you remain confident, calm, and decisive.

Save Home Visits

Wait until you feel secure before going to anyone’s private space.

Enjoy the Conversation

Relax, chat, and let good vibes guide the evening.